thanks for the advice....I'm taking it slow wiht her... got no choice..we didi't chatted for about 2 days again, and when we chatted I sense that it makes her feel good to talk wiht me...we chatted for hours again. but then again I called her yesterday on the phone, cause the day before she was not feeling good, I leave a message, I didn't ask her to call me back, I told her that I was calling her to see how she was doing, I din'dt ask her to call me back, cause I figured that she might called me back, normally...but no...I kind a got the feeling that she wasn't going to call me... I dont know why,
But when we chat on the net, we could go on for hours, but over the phone, I dont know what's happenig ? I'm a confident man, I show her no sings of needyness, I'm not asking her if she wants to go out and do something, cause the few times I asked her she sayd no...

we have seen each other in a month only 2 times. and the second time,she was the one to asked me,and it didn't lasted very long...
she has her problems that she doesnt want to talk about it....
she mention to me onnce that she wasn'T very confotable wiht her weight, But I dont see no problem wiht her weight, she looks fine to me...
last time we chatted she told me that she was feeling tense and anxious, I called the next day left her a message and she hasn'T called back.....
we met on this datin site, what cauht me her attention was tthe fact that she's looking for someone to built a family with. and she's beautiful too