I'm assuming you knew how she felt about sex a lot earlier on in the relationship than after two years? It's not fair for you to expect her to give something that important to her away. What you could do if you are intent on staying with her is see what she is willing to do. Maybe the two of you can find other ways to satisfy each other without having actual intercourse. If she is opposed to all of it then there isn't much else you can do, if you pressure her into it and then things don't lead to marriage she will resent you and herself. You don't want to do that to her. I think you really have to look deep and hard into the relationship and if you think that you can't wait or that you don't see it progressing into something more commited like marriage then you may want to end the relationship now. Two years is a long time, but staying together for 5 more just because you were together for 2 when things are not working is just crazy. Good luck.
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