Well, I think it probably would have been better to write her a short note asking her out for a drink afterwork sometime, or maybe dinner. I think you may have scared her off with all the talk of long term and your deep feelings for her. It may not be too late but from what you said and how your email went I think maybe she may be a little freaked out by your approach. You may be able to fix it by waiting a few weeks and then sending her a quick note saying something like, "I am sorry if I came on a little too strong in my email. I'd like to have a drink after work with you sometime, no pressure. " Good luck and if it doesn't work out, nest time you might not want to come on so strongly.
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