[Kalim]

So Hi I'm new here!

I am 30 and I haven't ever really dated. Sure I have had women but only thing Ive done is a whole lot of sex. Currently I have a woman of my own that's a virgin and she claims that she will stay that way until marriage. She wouldn't be my normal pick for what Id want in a woman however I am now a father and Ive batted away a lot of women because I see flaws that I do not want around my son. My current woman is awesome with children and being a teacher there is so much my son can gain. I figured I would give this one a try.

Here I am past the second date wondering what I can do. I'm trying to go slow like she wants and I'm avoiding everything that I would normally do. She has already complained that I haven't kissed her however she is the one that wanted it slow. So how does "sloooow dating" go anyway? How can I maintain interest in her without sex being there to bring me close. Last date I found myself staring out the window while she was talking... I know for sure that is bad.

So help ! Any idea's on what I can do with my new woman. Movies are ok but one can only handle so many of those. Next date I'm thinking of doing the swimming thing. But slow being the point and how am I to know exactly what slow is. Bleh.

Thanks for your time!
I look forward to seeing what help I can get.