Taking things slow is hard, especially if you're used to life in the fast lane.
Plan activities that keep you interested. If movies are out, just do simple things like taking a walk together. Making dinner. And not just easy mac. Make a day of it. Pick a recipe, find a farmer's market, start from scratch. Pair wines. Candles. The whole shebang. Or just drive. Go exploring. I dont know. There are a million things to do that are worth doing if its with someone you enjoy.
To keep yourself entertained, you probably need to storyline ideas in your head. "If I did this...what would she do?" Like if you just brushed her wrist with your fingertips and slipped her one of those sultry looks, how would she respond? How would it feel to her? How does it make you feel to make her feel that way? Take the simplest touch and expand on it in your mind. Sex is fun. But the road leading up to sex, the game, that is, is just as important.
Corny --
But its not the destination, its the journey.
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