[Tom in UK]

dear Dan and Jen.

I have been seeing my girlfriend for 6months. Things were really good at the start, she misses me and tell me she loves me and i do feel the same.

The problem now is I'm so obsessive with her, always calling her and SMS her asking where she is and wanting to know what she does all the time and its driving her away, i reallies this but i just cant control myself sometime.

The other night i got drunk and start calling her name and accusing her of things she hasn't done like contacting her ex,
She was deeply hurt by it and i regret it so much and its kills me, i told her how stupid i was and how sorry i am and i really want to change.

But she says she needs time to forgive me, and that we sud see less of each other and stop SmS her so much.

I do still love her very much but i don't think she feel as strongly towards me as she did before and i don't want to loose her.

What can i do? give her room? or is it a bad idea her call her and try and fix things or will that just fan the flame? help