[brbrhej]

I love the answers you got here. I would like to add concerning you being unexperienced..., that there is not need to stress what other people, both male and female, will think about you not being experienced. It is important to be who you are, and you are completely fine being who you are. If you accept yourself, it is also more likely that others will do that too.
I also think that once you meet a gilr you really, really like and feel confortable with...and if you happen to feel insecure or clumzy or anything like that...what might help you is just be frank as you were with us, and tell her how you are. I personally love when a man is frank with me. I had an indian boyfreind once (who had lack of experiences for simmilar reasons as you ), and was his first experience in everything starting form kiss to sex, and I actually found it really cute. So I am sure many women will be understanding and caring about this as well.
One thing more, which is something that helps me a lot in my life when it comes to learning anything (including relationships, love): there are no failiers, only experiences! I really live like this, and it brings lots of joy and self esteme (many people even admire me) whatever I learn. So just relate to it that you are in a learing process. If a woman wants you or rejects you, if you did something good or wrong...cose there are no wrongs in life, just experience. Try to learn from ALL of of your experiences and you will see how fast you develop and learn and build self asteem...and find a partner.
And if you have one of those days when your self esteem is low and you fel terrible, I guess you can always count on the support of the community we are having here.So you can be enthusiastic again.
I wish you good luck.
Br