you shouldn't wait around expecting him to call you. from your statement, both of you were cold and distant through the break up.
if you really feel that bad, write him a letter. put it on his door or in the mail. tell him the truth, all of it.
you will feel better, but i wouldn't expect him to come running back to you.
relationships are very hard work. no one comes equipt to deal with all the issues that arise. we all learn as we go through these things.
remember that you already had questionable issues arise before the other guy pointed out them to you.
unless this guy is ready to change those quirks, he's never going to change. ask yourself, would i be happy with him just the way he was?
if your anawere is yes, then apologize, and wait and see if he'll open back up.
if you think that you are going to have him change those quirks to make you happy, you are wrong.
you are a very special person. you are very unique. you have all the time in the world to find a man that is the perfect match for you. you shouldn't settle for something that is only half assed in your mind. all relationdhips take work, patience, forgivenss, and love. both people involved have to work together with the same common goal for the relationship to grow.
good luck
~fawkse~
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