[David in Stoneham]

The best way to learn is by doing. Just ask her what she likes. As you are going down on her, pay attention to her reactions. If you are doing what she likes than she will let you know. When I first tried going down on my wife, the hardest part was actually bringing up the subject. She had told me often before that she had something to ask me but she would always say she couldn't find the words. Once we were able to get past that, oral sex was "our" favorite act of love. In fact, since I am disabled, and she was overweight, it was really the only way for us. I had more enjoyment from pleasing her than I ever received myself. There was nothing better for me than to continue until she pushed me away. Experience IS the best teacher. She was my first and only love. She couldn't believe me when I told her I had NEVER done it before.