An awkward situation-Help?
I threw a party at my house that involved many people and a lot of booze. My husband and I had a tiny spat and he got mad at me and went to bed. While he was upstairs, one of my close friends (who is also my husbands friend) tried to console me. But it quickly turned into him sexually propositioning me and leaning in for a kiss. I explained to him that I am married and in love and not interested, and went upstairs. My husband was waiting there, looking for a fight. In my inebriated state, I may have over-exaggerated when I explained the situation. After telling the story again in a sober state of mind, my husband is still furious with this friend of ours.
It's been about 3 months since this has happened, and he's still mad. I tried to patch things up between the both of them but my husband just won't budge, and worse, he thinks I'm insane for not being mad at this person myself. I didn't want to lose a friend, but the fights between me and my husband have gotten so severe over this that I have reluctantly stopped communication with the other person altogether. I feel really upset that I have lost a friend over this. Is he being too jealous, or am I too forgiving?
Last edited by iloveyou155; 09-03-2008 at 08:29 AM.
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