it's very hard to forgive a friend that made the moves on your lover. put yourself in his shoes. what would you do if a lady friend had went upstairs and tride to get in your bed???
loosing that friend isn't half as bad as trying to keep a relationship with him. even though there was alcohol, it doens't make the act innocent. if this friend has had his eye's on you for a a while, the alcohol and the fight gave him the oppertunity he was wanting. do you reaaly want a friend around that is thinking of such things?
i would do what your husband wishes here. he knows that this frienship isn't harmless. he has every right to be angry. you should respect that, and honr your husband by letting this friend go. it would be the best for all of you.
good luck,
~fawkse~
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