Right on Dan
I agree with Dan.... That's a RED FLAG to me as well.... You and Your husband are ONE not seperate.... He should know what you do as well as what he does..... First off... Lets COMMUNICATE with your spouse... cause as we all know, NO Communication at all is leading up to a divorce or stale marraige.... You might find that your husband is willing to "TRY" this with you... But you must FIRST sit down and discuss this issue before going forward...... PLUS!!!!! Jealousy, CAN NOT BE THERE!!!! if you or your hubby have any doubts, jealous, or questionable fears of "having sex with others" then it's NOT going to work and you'll end up having MORE problems...... Swinging is a LIFESTYLE that is good with couples who are FULLY confidant in their relationship, This means YOU BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER UNCONDITONALY... without fear of losing each other....Many times I've noticed couples who are in the lifestyle and their marraige falls apart because THEY wanted Extra - marital sex and thinking this was the way to do it..... It's a ONE WAY STREET! You and your spouse must come to an agreement, without bias or fears.... FRIENDSHIP..... LOVE....TRUST....RESPECT if you place these values ahead of everything, you'll have a HAPPY relationship.... BEST ADVICE.... Do NOT do swinging without your partner's permission or acceptance.....
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