Let me give you a little break down to get your views.... I'll try to keep it short and simple
I met a guy at work (I am no longer working with him now)
We have hooked up a few times for sex but he insists that he is not ready for a relationship. He went through a break up late last year, was engaged and it just fell apart. This was with a girl from work.
We at first had 2 occasions that we were intimate but did not go all the way. At that point he backed off and decided we shouldn't do anything more.
About a month later we approached this again and this time did have sex. After 2 times he once again decided no more, in his words "if we wanted to remain friends, anything sexual would not help that"
Two weeks passed and he approached me again, wanting sex. I agreed to it but at first mentioned him saying that he didn't want to do it anymore. He said that he just doesn't want to lead me on, because he doesn't want a relationship and he knows that I do. I had agreed previous to this to keep in simple, sex with no commitments. (It had been 5 years without sex for me, I really wanted it)
I really feel like I am setting myself up for a heartbreak, because I do want more. I think deep down he likes me but is just having second thoughts or something.
What do you think? Am I being used? I wonder if he is saying he's not ready for a relationship because its easier to say that, than to turn me down.
I feel like if he wasn't at least somewhat attracted to me he would have never had sex with me in the first place.
Your input would be appreciated!! Thanks!
