think about the stuff dan and jen pointed out. see where you fall in there.
i have been broken up with the man i am with now 3 times. first, we dated when we were kids ( 13 and 14) for a week, and i broke it off. second, i broke up with him after a year of really decent serious dating. i relapsed on a drug, and i enedd up making my life a living hell. he went to the army. third, was not too long ago. we were living together, and he got a lot of bad advice from his family. we fought daily. he figured i was using him, and that i lacked ambition to life. (his family has a lot of pool when it comes to his life...)
my point here is that regardless of breaking up, we still couln't let eachother completely go. there is always hope. he could never really bring himself to date other women much duiring these break ups. i, on the other hand, did try to date. the other guys never could help me forget him though.
we always used email to talk to eachother. we both would tell eachother how we felt, and after a few of those, we would start visitng. the chemistry between us never died.
maybe you could write her, and just simply tell her you really miss her. after she responds, you will know where to go from there.
good luck
~fawkse~
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