Can I ask you some questions?
What is your family's background? Liberal? or Conservative? Religious? etc.
Have you had bad or unwanted sexual encounters in the past? Or did your parents avoided the "sex talk" with you?
Do you think you'd enjoy sex with someone from your same gender? Do you think you would enjoy it more while doing threesomes?
Do you foreplay before having sex?
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Many things might be going on. Sex drive is one of the most natural desires of the human and nature in general, besides eating and sleeping. If you have just a general feeling of discomfort, then something happened/is happening that is not allowing you to enjoy it and it should be reviewed by a doctor.
If you know the reason you don't enjoy sex: If it is family background, or Religious background, or even rape, etc. you know what to work on, again with the help of a doctor.
If you feel that you would enjoy having sex with someone of your same gender, you should do a little self reflection and find out why and when you have the answer, embrace it.
If you just have sex "quicky style", without foreplay, it will be way harder to be into the moment and really enjoy it.
I am sure I am not a ig help, and D&J will eventually come and enlighten all of us.
Good luck!
-Jean
Who thinks sex is more important than sleeping. Obviously, you have sex before sleeping
