The problem I've always had with this type of online dating, is that the two parties spend an incredible amount of time building an online relationship before they even meet in real life. Sometimes this causes problems because people build up certain expectations of the other person that might not exist in the real world, thus leading one or both parties to disappointment.
So, my advice would be to let go of your expectations and treat the date as if you barely know her. As far as conversation goes, you'll have to come up with interesting topics to talk about that don't involve your personal histories (which you've likely already revealed to her).
Also, stop thinking about the whole "spending your life together" stuff. You both are planning wayyyy to far ahead before even meeting each other. I'm not saying it won't turn into love but you should be careful to distinguish between the "virtual" world and the "real" world.
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