Hi Dan and Jennifer, yes you do have international fans!!

Anyways here is my question. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 yrs now and she really likes rough sex. She hasn't been really clear as to if she likes bdsm and that kind of stuff, but rough as in really hammering her, choking, name-calling, spanking, throwing her all over the place, pulling her hair, just basically man handling her and treating her like a "rag doll" (in her own words). I on the other hand have always preferred slower sex but I am making the effort to get into what she likes, but I am having some difficulty.

Some parts are easy like the really hard and rough penetration (she feels no pain so it's cool) and the spanking, choking and pulling her hair. However I have trouble calling her names, slapping her and just throwing her all over the place. I try dirty-talk and she says I do it OK, but I don't think OK is good enough.

Please, tell me how to release my inhibitions!! Trust is not an issue. I just finished watching your video on rough sex but it's more about bdsm and it therefore doesn't answer my specific question.

I love her response to whatever roughness she gets out of me because I love it when she screams, begs me to stop and says she can't take it anymore. I love when she puts up a fight, scratches me and hits me on my chest like she's out of control. And her orgasms are so much stronger when I am rough, and she gets so many more in little time!!
But she always mentions the other things I don't do and says she would really love me to do them. I am willing to do it but I don't know how. Other than the fact that I don't want to hurt her or her feelings, I also don't want to do something and it ends up being mediocre.
I hope you understand where I am coming from and are willing to help.

It is ok with me if you use this to make one of your videos, in fact I would be really pleased. I know my letter is quite long so you are free to summarize or pick and choose which passages a really relevant for the video.

Thank you guys so much in advance!