It took me getting locked in a media center at school by our friends before my b/f and I would even admit that we liked each other. Now its been five and half years and we are still going and happy (for the most part, see thread). The other poster is right, there are a lot of turn offs and if you don't see her trying to get closer to you or trying to make a move then she most likely isn't into you. But a lot of people don't see the signs or they don't know how to look for them.
All I can say is you don't know if you don't ask. Maybe it will take you getting locked in a small room by friends to get the courage to ask her.
