[Melleh]

Hello,
i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and 9 months in 5 days times. We are separated(long distance relationship) and lives oversea but we talk everyday on messenger. I am planning to travel oversea to visit him and be with him but the problem is i can't stay there because the government is strict on Foreigners.
The problem is that when ever i try to hint something to him like 'giving hugs and so on' he doesn't get the hint plus he doesn't bring topics up to talk about and often he couldn't think of any plus he has bad memories.
I have met him over a online game 4 years ago and when i went back onto the game i find him asking me out so i thought this is going to be fun having a short and online relationship but it lasted longer then i thought. We have saw each other faces, heard our voices over the mike and phone. It's not like its a pedophile and people hiding their profile, stalking them plus we dun have physical activities like hugging each other and etc. I have already talk to him about it and he was very disappointed but will try to make it work which is good. Before the exams we were really close but now it feels like we are drifting apart. how can i make him more open?