Dear Dan and Jennifer, I'm 34 years old and have recently won a 3 yr battle with cancer. I have a new lease on life and want to live it to the fullest.

I have an absolute best guy friend, “Rick”, who is dating my best friend “Abbie”. I have been thinking a lot lately about having a threesome with "Rick" and “Abbie”. I'm just not sure how to broach the subject with either of them. "Rick" and I have joked about it a few times before but I always brushed it aside…

Now, how should I go about approaching the subject for real? I love them both, and I don’t want anyone hurt at all.