I understand you are going through lots of stress from this but you took a vow for better or worse. If she was in a car accident and could not have sex ever again would this be your answer? How about if the shoe was on the other foot? What if you were an alcoholic and neglected her needs. Would you want her to cheat on you? I think not, you want your spouse to help you. So you must help her. It may take months or years but that’s what a marriage is. You re there for each other, good times or bad. Never give up.
Get to therapy
Plan dates outside of the house where she has no access to the video games
Invite friends over for a 4-some.
Delete the game while she is at work.
Do an intervention
Maybe I’m a bit out there with these but you get the idea.
Good luck. I hear about sexless marrages from lots of guys and I am sure it really hurts.
Hugs and Hissessss,
Maria
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