Trying to initiate a swinging experience with vanilla friends can be hazardous to your friendships, so you have to ask yourself if your fantasy is actually worth the risk of losing your friends. If you really want to have a threesome, your best bet is to visit your local swing club (many clubs admit single women for free) and/or place an ad on a swingers website.
However, if you are as close to this couple as you say, the next time you joke about it with Rick, try asking him, "Seriously, would you and Abbie ever consider having a threesome with me?" If he is not comfortable with the idea, or if he feels that Abbie wouldn't be comfortable with it, hopefully he will be honest with you. But, as we said before, this approach involves a certain amount of risk. If Abbie is prone to jealousy, she might interpret your proposal as a way of trying to steal Rick away from her.
Whatever you decide, we wish you luck.
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