I think you might still be single because since you're shy, you might not have talked to other women so much because you're a little nervous (like me). Try flirting with a woman at your college or try making some friends with other women there. Since you're inshape and you sound like an athlete, women who are into athletics should be like a magnet to you if you'd try talking to them. You should try to talk a little bit more if you're shy. Try with all your will power to talk to women especially, and not just people you know. People who are also shy have the same problems as you, so maybe you should try talking to another shy girl at your college since you will both be sorta nervous. If you like a girl at your college, try your hardest to talk to her. I don't know if this is exactly the answer that you're looking for, but I hope this sort of helps. If you want a girlfriend, you can't accept not having one the rest of your life. Good luck, and don't give up!
