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Originally Posted by Phil
Thanks Dan that helps a lot and no I have not taken what you have said as being anything wrong. She has a real nice mistress and she has assured me that she is being treated with love and respect. I was just worried about the Abuse part of her life that she went through and after reading some of the replys that I have gotten so far I do believe she is in good hands. So again thanks.  |
That's great Phil.
And I'm so glad The Beautiful Kind chimed in, her explanation was eloquent and illuminating as usual. Particularly...
Finally, in BDSM the sub is in control. It's the Dom's job to give her what she wants, and to keep within her limits. BDSM should be SSC - safe, sane and consensual.
It is fun roleplaying, a good emotional and physical outlet. Mutual respect and trust is paramount in making it work.
"SSC - safe, sane, and consensual"... damn well put. Anything else is downright abuse, which above all wrong, but also illegal and prosecutable.