1. Take turns with what you like - some nights can be slow and gentle, other nights can be rough n' wild.
2. Have a couple drinks, it'll loosen you up.
3. She should have a safe word she can use if you cross a line. That way you don't need to second guess when she says, "no, please don't, stop!"
4. Did you ever wrestle and play fight as a kid? Take yourself back to that mindset, it's FUN to pretend and let go. Keep in mind that you are in a role, and that you are name calling in that role, and that it's a game. What you do in the bedroom is separate from real life.
Yep, the best sex is the kind you can FEEL later on. You are great to make the effort to please your woman - for some people manhandling comes naturally, those with dom personalities. You might have a more submissive personality.
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