I'll tell you guys, it's because women get bombarded with messages. And usually with sites that are specifically for dating, they'll send out general messages/flirts to people they think are matches.
My first day on AFF, I got about 34 messages and I didn't have a photo. So, I mean if you don't have a serious anxiety problem, it's best if you stay personal when meeting ladies. At least she can see your face and hear your voice. I think guys have a better chance at a crowed bar than on a dating site.
Good luck.
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