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Originally Posted by truthseeker357
He gets angry and to tell the truth I'm kind of afraid of him. Sometimesd he tries to manhandle me and acts like he's going to have sex there whether I like it or not.
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OK, I used to work in a prison as a corrections officer. I've dealt with his type before.. get away from him as quickly and safely as you can. Anal sex isn't dangerous if it's done right.. but if he's going to penetrate too quickly and without and lubrication then it can most definately cause you pain. But I don't think that the actual anal sex is the biggest problem here. You have a bad boy on your hands. How you get out of the relationship is totally up to you, and how he reacts. I have a very close friend who was in an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship and he attempted to get physically abusive when she broke up with him, but decided not to because she brought me along as a witness. He's now in jail, by the way, for threats and intimidation.. but that's neither here nor there.
Now if anal sex is something
you want to try, then get yourself a patient and understanding man (black, white, asian, or green and purple polka dots - doesn't matter) and explore the back door of sexual pleasure.
Also, if it's something
you want to try, you can always get a toy and try it. Sometimes the toys that are actually made for anal may be intimidating, so a slim mini vibrator might be more fun. There's actually lots of interesting anal play you can do either alone or with an understanding partner. And when you get yourself a calmer and more understanding partner and anal is not something you want to do, then talk about it. Sex should be fun for both of you. Make sure your limits are clear, and his as well, so no one hurts or offends anyone. Then you can have mind blowing sex, anal or otherwise!
