Painful as it may be, you should let go of him. Three reasons:
1 - His daughter - who would be hurt deeply by this. And you would have some responsibility for this. She would never accept you. Ever. And why should she?
2 - His wife, with whom he should try to work out his issues (perhaps including a therapist)
3 - You - for ending his marriage, violating your own values, and perhaps ending up with the same problems he has with his current wife.
Get some help. Leave him. Don't look back.
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