Hey Bret,
Great advice, modern savage. I want to add that a large portion of confidence comes from pushing through fears. Every time you push through one of your fears you automatically gain a little more confidence. Push through enough fears and you won't even recognize yourself because of how confident you are.
Learn to love yourself. I wrote an article about this on my site but I'll give you a little bit to help you out. Repeat this affirmation over and over till it sinks in-"I love and accept myself completely." At first it will seem like you are lying to yourself but over time you will truly believe it.
"I don't feel like I am enough for women"-Repeat the words "I am enough" over and over. I am enough means that you don't need anything outside of yourself to make you feel happy. You would enjoy more women and more money but you could take or leave those things. It also means that you are complete and whole and don't need more money or a nice car in order to attract women.
Any time that you feel your insecurities rising up ("women won't like me because...") repeat that affirmation. It will calm you down greatly.
Alex
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