[K. in Cleveland]

Dear Confused,
That's a tough one, unfortunately I don't really feel there's much anyone else could know that would be able to answer your question. It's really impossible to tell from just having some text messages sent. She sounds like she's the type to be flighty and jump from relationship to relationship in an on again/off again fashion... not really much anyone can do about that. My best advice is try to move on. Take any information you came across in this relationship and apply it to the next relationship. I like to think that no experience is wasted in life...
But, of course, your post begs the question, how did you treat her? This is a question just for you, you don't have to reply.. do you feel in your heart that you treated her right, or were there things that may have driven her away... I hope it is her and not you.

I know this doesn't sound like much help, but it's the best I can figure from what you've said.

Best of luck,
K.