In the grand scheme of things, it really doesn't matter what she was doing just before she broke up with you. Recognize that it's our ego that needs to know the answer to everything and figure out why. It needs a problem to solve.
I agree with K. Now is a good time to step back and think about what went well in this relationship and what didn't work so well. Learn from that and apply it to your next relationship.
It would also be a good time to practice a little "law of attraction" exercise and write down everything that you want in a relationship and exactly what the perfect relationship will look like to you so that you can start attracting that person to you.
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