Thanks ooze. That is amazingly helpful advice for not only me, but for everyone! I'll just ask her to go to the movies, but it'll be casual instead of more formal and dressed up since after all, it would be our first time "going out" together.
How does this sound for asking her? (there's a yes and no):
"Hey (person's name).
On Friday there's this movie that's suppossed to be really good it's called: (movie title). Afterwards we could go bowling or get a bite to eat if you'd like. I promise it'll be a really great time! (Smile) How would you like to go with me?"
(If she says yes I'll say,)
"Great! (Smile) Would you like my father to give us a ride there or would you like to meet up at the front doors say about 20 minutes before it begins at (whatever time)?" (Then finish it up from there asking her for her number [I'll need some paper and a pen!
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"Hey (person's name).
On Friday there's this movie that's suppossed to be really good it's called: (movie title). Afterwards we could go bowling or get a bite to eat if you'd like. I promise it'll be a really great time! (Smile) How would you like to go with me?"
(If she says no I'll say,)
"Oh well, that's okay; maybe some other time." (Then start another conversation about something else, just shake it off, and take the rejection.)
Do those sound good for asking her?
The only problem I have asking her to go to the movies with me is what if she says she's already seen the movie before? Is that a rejection or should I ask if she'd like to go to another one that is a little newer in release? Or even (a little bolder), should I ask her what movie she hasn't seen before if she's already seen the one I mentioned?
Just a little help with that problem and I'll be all set and ready to go.
Thanks A LOT for your help ooze!!!