[kettlekorn]

So do you want to talk to them about something other than their sex scene and don't know how to get them to? You could tell them how important they are to keep in touch, and hope to learn about __fill in the blank__ in their lives. You could ask them questions in a different way than just repeating the same thing over and over again. Have you visited them? Their house would probably have clues to guide a conversation. Like "when/where did you take this photograph?"