[Jeff in New York]

Well, everything was normal until I found out that this girl in my grade likes me. I didn't really know her that well so we talked for a couple days, then hung out. It looked as if everything was going smooth. Lately, things have been growing more distant though, I try to talk to her as often as I can, but don't want it to be stalker-like. Then she keeps going back and forth between me and this other guy. I don't really know what to do at this point..