Well....most guys like porn. Most girls do not. This isn't absolute but I think it is generally true.
Guys who like it find a way to keep it - magazines, websites, etc.
He would have it whether he was with you or not. It has nothing to do with you. And if you are going to be bothered by it you'll need to find another partner - one who is better at hiding it.
That said, too many men get their idea of sex/intimacy from pornography. Most women aren't like that seen in pornography (nor are most men but we ignore that). Most women don't "like it in the ass" as you would see in porno nor is it that big a thrill to have a man cum on your face, I imagine. These ideas arise from pornography.
What men do like in pornography is the enthusiasm that the women show. And, in my limited experience, most women aren't like that. The idea of men as the pursuers and women as the object is experienced by many men. Women become the ones who dole it out (or not) as they wish. In pornography, women are voracious about sex.
In truth, most of us guys couldn't handle a woman with a high sex drive. We just aren't physiologically capable. But the idea of it is very exciting.
Maybe you could find some "female friendly" pornography. There are studios which specialize in this. I'm not talking about lesbian pornography - but about movies with more dialogue, more of a storyline, etc. Maybe Dan & Jenn can recommend some of this. And perhaps you would find this more interesting.
You could even masturbate him while watching it together. And vice versa. This might be a way to come/cum together on this issue.
But he isn't going to stop being interested in pornography. And you're only making yourself and him unhappy.
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