When to seek professional advice/therapy?
Hello,
I'm brand-spankin' new here, and I just watched Dan and Jenn's video on staying in a sexless marriage, which was very interesting.
We've been married 15 years, and our marriage isn't sexless, my wife and I have sex at least weekly. However, for at least the last 5 years, probably more like 8, 95% of the time it's "for me only", which is emotionally totally unsatisfying. Though it does take the physical edge off. The remaining 5% can be FANTASTIC, but it's so hit or miss, even when I keep track of her cycle.
My wife has had her hormone levels checked (in the "normal" range, though towards the low side), she doesn't have any history of abuse, and I do what I can to make sure she gets the rest she needs.
So, at what point do I drag her with me to therapy? Also, how expensive is therapy?
I greatly appreciate any advice y'all can provide.
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