Before he got laid off from his job, our relationship was great. He was always showing his love for me with emotions and words. He always wanted to be close to me and spend time with me and our sex life was GREAT. After he got laid off before he left, things started to become stressed between us. He started to pull away from me, not wanting to spend much time with me and our sex life started to die. Because I felt him pulling away from me I would try to get closer to him, and he told me I was smothering him. So we started to argue about everything. Not having sex, him pulling away from me. But at the same time, I never once gave him a hard time about not having a job, and I always supported him and tried to help him out with everything. So with him pulling from me and all I felt like everything I did was left unappreciated.
When he first left for his deployment he told me he realized how he had pulled away from me and regretted it. That he would have never for gave himself if I would have left him because of the way he was towards me.
