[Tanya in Austria]

Hello,

I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and we don't really keep anything from each other, but I've known for a while already that I'm a submissive. I'm usually a top when we have sex, but secretly I love being dominated. I just don't know how I would tell her about it without sending her screaming and running away. She loves me, so I'm sure she woudn't run away, but she's a pretty shy person, so I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable, or make her feel like she has to dominate me to please me. The sex we have already is great, but I hate living with this secret. Do you have any advice for a way to let her know without damaging our relationship or making her feel uncomfortable?

Thanks so much,
Tanya in Austria