Don't do it. I am a clinical psychologist and you have no comprehension of the pain affairs cause women. Also, you have no idea how bad it can get. If you think things are bad now; imagine your children losing their respect for you; your coworkers stop talking when you enter the room. Everyone has a fantasy about how great an affair will be. The fantasy needs to include the downside. Don't do it. This is what marriage counselors are for. If you aren't willing to do that, then be a man and leave. Don't let her hear about it at the beauty shop.
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