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Old 12-30-2008, 04:35 PM
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Exclamation Beware of overly general or accusatory assumptions

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Originally Posted by sexisgood4u View Post
Your lifestyle spreads diseases. This is what happens to a White woman who mates with a Black. She swings or gets involved with drugs.
That's a very general assumption which is statistically improbable.

First, swinging in no way spreads diseases any more than single college kids having sex spreads diseases. In fact college kids are way, way less likely to use protection and make educated decisions about who they have sex with than grown-up adults (referred to here are "swingers", though we're not fans of labels).

It sounds like you had a bad experience, and I'm sorry to hear about that, but it's not in your or any else's best interest to base you expectations of all future relationships on that one situation.

Instead try to learn from the past and see how you can make it a little better next time. Just a thought to ponder.

But swinging is a different topic altogether. Let's keep this discussion to the topic of this thread, which was the question of interracial dating - and which has been covered already in good depth and yes even from wildly different perspectives.

Thanks!
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