We prefer not to go into our personal sex lives and choices as examples for the column or the Forums, in part because that will bias the discussion. We encourage people to follow their hearts and make their own informed choices which are right for them.
But we've abstracted the question to it's more useful form...
"would a white couple swing with a black couple?"
And the answer is I don't see why not.
But honestly I think focusing on only one factor like that really misses the mark.
First, many many "swingers" don't actually have sex with other people than their own spouse.
When couples do have friendships, spend time with, or even have sex with other singles and couples, that's just as complex a human relationship as singles dating. People are attracted to one another for an incredible number of reasons, and saying "would you date someone that's white or black" is about as helpful as asking "would you date a guy who's 6ft 3in tall" or "would you date a girl that wears glasses".
Fact is, people are attracted to one another for any combination of hundreds / thousands of factors, not one thing.
All having been said, if someone has a serious hang-up with one particular trait, they probably wont' be open to dating someone with that one single trait.
Someone else chime in - what do you guys think about interracial swinging? Does it seriously matter to you or to anyone you know?