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Old 12-31-2008, 03:42 PM
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Question Bringing up the issue.

Hi. I posted earlier about beginning casual dating in my 40's, without implying I was looking for a committed relationship. I have taken the advice I received and meeting people and interacting has been going well. I have had several situations in my social circles where I thought women were interested, but I seemed to let the window pass without knowing how to bring up the subject of taking it further. I've gotten the feedback that I'm something of a gentleman, and I suspect fear of offending someone is what has stopped me from "pulling the trigger." I have nudged the subject with a couple of women in my social circle, and the body language was there, but I didn't know how to take it to the next step and suggest an actual romantic/sexual encounter without being offensive. I would appreciate any suggestions on how to bring up the subject of romantic/sexual activity in an honest and honorable way, without being offensive.

Thank you for all the help.
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