A professional perspective.
Cocaine doesn't create desire. it only increases it, while lowering inhibitions. That's why people who are intoxicated shouldn't make life-altering decisions. Sometimes people who are intoxicated have ideas that seem foolish in the sober light of day. Some ideas sound good but carry consequences and risks that just aren't worth the pleasure.
Cocaine is notorious for dulling awareness of the consequences of actions. I've worked in a rehab. I've seen marriages, businesses, and entire lives destroyed by decisions made under the influence of cocaine.
Like you say, you're both adults. If I were in your shoes, I'd be very suspicious of a plan that only sounds good when someone is stoned. If it doesn't seem like a good idea when you're both straight, it's probably not a good idea. This is a conversation the two of you need to have when you're straight.
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