Hi thanks for your replies
K. in Cleveland
Her husband died 13 years ago
modernsavage
I don't think it's an obsession but it's leading my life and I want to get rid of it
I've tried to avoid contact with her for a few months but no succes she calls me and comes over to my place to ask me why I won't come anymore....
She likes the attention from me that's for sure but maybe I need to consider that i'm an orbiter like you said
that she needs me to feel good about herself....
I also think she is onto me that I have feelings for her , I mean it's so obvious but I need to make a step like you said and grow a sack
I will keep you informed
and thanks for the replies !