[Maria]

I am a 36 years old women, living in an european town. I have been single (with short interruptions) for the last 4 years. I would like to have a serious and long lasting relationship again.
I don't have a problem in meeting men - also in the active part. I went out with a lot of men in the last years. With some of them I had a short relationship or affair, but after a few weeks or months it always ends. Most of the time they break up with me. Often when I don't expect it - after they have showed a lot of emotions or commitment. I have made this experience with all kind of men. Sometimes I was really madly in love or with nice guys that my girlfriends approved before as good candidates. When I ask them about the reasons - I don't get any answer - or a "I'm not into you". What I don't understand is their enthusiasm first and then the break-up after a short time. barely enough time to get each other to know.