Question is - do you fantasize about men or women?
Sounds like you ARE "attracted" to women but for some reason when it comes down to having sex with a woman you run into a problem. Is that what you're saying?
Because that could be caused by a LOT of other things, certainly not just being "gay". Maybe nervousness, trauma from a previous event that you'll need to work through, something along those lines.
Focus less on the gay or non-gay label on more on the specifics of what you want. Do you fantasize about men or women?
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