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Originally Posted by Sin Secret
Hey there.
The thing here is that you can't force her into it. If she isn't comfortable with it, she ultimately gets the final word.
If you'd really like to give it a shot though, do your research and communicate with her. It's unlikely that you'll want to (or you'll be able to get her to) have sex with some random guy, so find out if there's anyone in your area who's into "swinging", or maybe even ask if there's anyone she'd be interesting in having sex with. Talk to her about the idea. Bring it up gently and subtley, but also honestly. Tell her that it's something your interested in at least trying. Tell her you'd make sure everything was completely safe, as in having the guy be someone who seems worthy and using condoms and all "safety equipment" (and make sure you follow through with that).
But no matter what you do, it's still completely up to her. She'd be the one having sex with the guy, so don't push it on her.
~Sin
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Although having a sub nature I never thought of having sex with another guy even if he asked.No one can be pushed into something their not interested in.Being very sexual I loved anal sex but was very uncomfortable with my husband's size.I made many friends thru my husband and one man espically one.While at a nudist resort we shared a suite with a private hot tub.While in the tub naked my husband brought me to many great orgasms.Our friend and his lady were also having a great time.I mentioned that he was rather small in size.While still being in a state of arousal my husband told them that I perfered his size for anal sex.It only took minutes before I was being fondled by them all,we then went to the bed.He was very gentle and his size was perfect for my bottom.I saw how much my husband enjoyed watching and enjoyed watching this lady give my husband oral.I think that having another woman there made this possible.Of course this is not for everyone.I know when my husband invites him over for an evening it's time to get cleaned out.I love being bound and watching my master and mistress having sex in front of me,of course I'm always taken care of.Be careful,as the vanilla world is very uptight