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Old 06-30-2008, 12:02 PM
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If you plant a kiss on him, you're really putting yourself out there. If he's not interested, you run the risk of direct rejection, which can be painful and hard to recover from - it sounds like you guys have a great relationship and I would hate to see it ruined over a single action.

Find other, more subtle ways to initiate contact.
  • When you're listening to music, touch him casually on the arm, or even better on the leg.
  • When you're walking or standing, 'accidentally' brush up against him.
  • Prolong your eye contact with him - hold his gaze for an extra second or two.

If he's not interested, he may not respond to your actions, but you have not put your self in a position to be absolutely rejected. Make sense...

You can just go back to the way it was before if he doesn't respond.
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