K in Cleveland, nicely put!
Yeah I would say most women wouldn't find this a turn on, but there are some who would really be into it, and some who would be open to it. I knew one couple where the guy was really into pantyhose and the woman wasn't so much, but she was open to it and wore them for him during sex and she really grew to love it, because she saw how much it turned him on, and that excited her as well.
You should definitely look for a woman with a dominant personality, she will work well with you. And someone who is fun and creative and likes playing dress up, like from a sci-fi convention or drama geek.
And don't wait too long before telling the person you are dating about it - better to be open and upfront about it from the beginning. Even if she freaks out and runs, that will save you both time and shows you aren't a good match anyway. And who knows, maybe if you tell her about your fetish, she'll tell you about hers! Will you like hers?? Hee