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Originally Posted by The Beautiful Kind
I knew one couple where the guy was really into pantyhose and the woman wasn't so much, but she was open to it and wore them for him during sex and she really grew to love it, because she saw how much it turned him on, and that excited her as well.
And don't wait too long before telling the person you are dating about it - better to be open and upfront about it from the beginning. Even if she freaks out and runs, that will save you both time and shows you aren't a good match anyway. And who knows, maybe if you tell her about your fetish, she'll tell you about hers! Will you like hers?? Hee
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You know, I was just thinking about this, and thinking of how I might reword my previous post. But then I figured it warranted it's own. I knew a guy who was into furries (dressing up like an animal for sexual activities) and met a girl who was not into this. He told her he was into sci-fi type stuff and liked to do conventions and all, and she was cool with it. But then he dressed up in the bedroom and kind of freaked her out... all worked out ok for them for awhile... she began to enjoy it, and he didn't have to hide his fetish anymore. Sadly, he was killed in action while serving in Iraq (hmmm, our soldiers are kinky too?) just in case you were wondering why I "knew" him and it "worked out for awhile"... sorry to add that bummer note, but I also thought it was worth saying that he was a Marine and had what would be considered an unusual fetish...